My next oil change at a 4,000 km interval (27,600 km) is imminent, perhaps in the next two weeks as days are getting warmer. This is when I find out if the mod I did late last year to try and hold the factory magnet more stationary improved the situation...
The suspense was killing me so I did the job at 27,435 km, 165 km early of my 4,000 km goal. Bottom line, I'm calling it a 'win', the oil was
not tinged black this time but appeared more green, much like spirulina. Sloshed around in a pan it was golden brown and clean, could have been left in place far longer. Magnets had minimal iron as many others have found at short intervals.
I used my inspection camera to relocate more precisely the external stack of magnets I had glued to the housing to better restrain the internal magnet. I added (2) more to make the stack 15mm high. A stack of (3) was only enough to just move move the internal magnet around so I'm thinking (5) should better restrain it against the influence of oil turbulence. There's about 9 mm of aluminium casing to get through so a strong field is needed.
If anyone else wants to replicate this the first issue is determining which pole goes up. The internal magnet could be oriented either way. It's not too hard to figure it out as when it's in the correct orientation at the position shown in my photo below the magnet will center itself and you can feel or hear the internal magnet following and moving in and out of its pocket as you slide the external magnet around, see short video
here. So, you'd want to glue the external magnet as far away from the casing joint as it will comfortably sit so that the internal magnet stays hidden in its pocket.
I've used up my supply of oil and given the good results am unlikely to change it again. Chances are I'll be driving another EV in 2-3 years.

Fill and drain respectively. This is exactly the quantity of metal I would expect to see given the duration.
New Penrite 70W-75 v.s. old. It looks dark in sunlight but not so under 3000K LED, below.
New location of magnet stack, moved 10mm in the 8 o'clock direction, a drop of epoxy holding the first one in place, cured overnight. This location should be valid for any Kona but not the Ioniq as it's different.
The next (4) disk magnets are just stuck on. These were expensive, $22 per 3, and seem to be among the strongest grade of neodymium grades. It's very difficult to slide any two apart.