I'm flabbergasted that the response from a Clarity specific forum recommends buying the Clarity when asked.

Also always shocks me when I ask a Chevy Salesperson if I should buy a Chevy and they say YES!
/sarcasm
I reality, if you look at only the info we were given:
1) 80 mile round trip commute
2) Charging at home but not at work
Since it would be used for commuting in the Bay Area (we have zero info about any other use) a BEV with ~120+ mile range would be the logical choice.
Reduced range from high speeds is not a factor, a 50% buffer on rated range is extremely generous given the climate and use case. Even the MINI Cooper SE would be on my short list at 108 miles (117 city). ~ $20K MSRP after accounting for the Federal and State incentives available n CA (income can affect that number up or down).
Almost certainly there are other considerations (price, etc), but for the same cost as the Clarity PHEV, options are available that do not require hauling around an ICE and having to perform the maintenance required on it.
And yes, if the OP drives to Las Vegas once a month, has relatives in Chico they visit every other weekend, needs to haul 7 people and sheets of plywood on weekends, a short range BEV is likely not the vehicle for them. But the Clarity PHEV may not be either.