It seems to me that a battery should work over the temperature range of the car without the need to keep it at room temperature with heaters or refrigeration. It is obviously possible to provide these measures but they are undesirable from cost, reliability, power consumption and bulk. A battery technology which requires external measures to prevent it from destroying itself is a distinctly sub-optimal solution.
Battery 'breakthroughs' are probably best ignored until a safe, intrinsically temperature-robust, inexpensive, energy-dense, fast charging, long-lasting product can actually be bought and used. I suspect we will have quite a wait!
I agree with all your points, just not your conclusion. Each breakthrough brings us closer to the ideal battery as you describe. And it is not reasonable to wait for the perfect solution if interim solutions are cost-effective.