So got home to New Jersey today from Florida and am so pleased at what experience and the help of forum friends can do to make a trip successful. Left yesterday morning from Jacksonville and drove to Norfolk/Virginia Beach and spent the night at a dog friendly hotel with two Tesla chargers (thank you TeslaTap). Got up this morning and was home by 1:30 with one stop at a ChargePoint 50kW charger at a Royal Farms in Georgetown Delaware.
In contrast to the trip down, which was a wee bit stressful because of the unknown factor, coming home felt very much like any trip I have taken in my
ICE vehicles over the years (with the obvious exception of longer rest stops) (and zero emissions from the car). I actually found that the longer rest breaks made the trip easier and more enjoyable. It forces one to take some time away from the inherent stress of highway driving, every 200 miles or so, and I found that to be a very helpful thing.
The car was great. So happy I made this purchase. I was a test-drive away from buying a Rav4 Prime plug-in hybrid and decided on a whim to run over to the Hyundai dealer and take the Kona for a spin. So glad I did. Sure a plug-in hybrid is better for the environment than an ICE and would have been a fine choice, but I have been wanting to go all-electric for years and the price just hasn't been right. Until now.
In my view the best strategy on an East Coast trip like this one is to stick with ElectrifyAmerica whenever possible during the day, as I think one or more of you recommended. While i used PlugShare and ABRP a lot, especially for overviews, on the way back I used the EA app and Google Maps or Waze to plan my stops along the way coming home and it was pretty much flawless. I went back the way I came down (via the DelMarVa peninsula) and that was really the only time I pulled out PlugShare en route since EA has not filled in those gaps along the peninsula yet. But there is a Walmart right smack in the middle of the peninsula that is just begging for EA charging stations (I guess I will be the one begging for them actually). But EA with its ubiquitous fast chargers, mostly in working order and excellent customer service, is the only way to go when available, IMHO.
I want to thank everyone again for all your input and advice in response to my question. Without all the advice i know I would have been feeling my way along much more than I was, and the trip down might have soured my wife (who was as big or bigger a proponent of EV's and their environmental importance than I was) on the viability of EV's for us at this point in time. Instead we worked our way through what were really minor struggles and came home knowing that we are all in and that it is in so many ways better than ICE travel. So thanks! I expect to be reading and writing to the Forum regularly as this journey continues.