Certainly most of what you said no one here is going to disagree with. I would also say that few people here are agonizing over this. And thinking about and discussing it does not stop them from enjoying their car. Other than the occasional worried new owner who doesn't understand that there are buffers, it certainly helps to provide them information to help assuage their concerns.I would not spend 1 minute of my day worrying about this. Plug it in every chance you get and leave it plugged in till you need it.
We have a Plug-in-Hybrid we bought new in May of 2019, in May 2022 it will be three years old and has over 37,000 miles on it. It is plugged in at all times unless we are driving it. It is a 2019 Niro PHEV EX and is advertised to get 26 miles per full charge of electric range. After almost 3 years of being plugged in at all time if not being driven it averages about 30 miles per full electric charge.
PHEV's and EV's are designed to be plugged in if they aren't being driven. That is why the all have Battery Management Systems and battery buffers. It is impossible to charge an electric vehicles battery to 100% or discharge it to 0% the Battery Management System and battery buffer will not let this happen.
Think a minute about who knows the most about your vehicle - an experienced Honda Electrical Engineer who designed the battery and management system for it or random internet posters. It is an easy choice for me to pick the most knowledgeable of the two. Wouldn't Honda build in safeguards on their vehicles and batteries to guarantee consumer satisfaction? They did not build this wonderful vehicle to have customer after customer agonize over battery management.
Just drive, plug in and enjoy this wonderful vehicle Honda built.
But I also think it's a valid discussion, for those who are interested in it, about charging method as it relates to battery life. Although likely the impact is relatively small over the life of the vehicle, it's of interest to people who enjoy trying to get the most efficiency out of their car, and who expect to keep it for several years. Just like some people enjoy getting into the minutia of tire design as it relates to driving performance, something that I personally care very little about, but I can understand why it's important to some people.
"Think a minute about who knows the most about your vehicle - an experienced Honda Electrical Engineer who designed the battery and management system for it or random internet posters. It is an easy choice for me to pick the most knowledgeable of the two."
I'm pretty sure that no one thinks they know more about the vehicle than the engineers who designed it. But the engineers don't always get to make all of the decisions (marketing people tend to be good at meddling). And the engineers likely don't have complete control over what information gets published. For example the owners manual says, "To help extend the lifespan of the battery, it is recommended that you fully charge the battery each time prior to driving". But we are left speculating just how important this actually is, or what type of impact they are talking about. Realistically we sometimes need to drive somewhere without being able to fully charge. But how often is too often? At what point are we reducing battery life by not always fully charging the battery each time prior to driving? I can give someone my opinion, which is that it's not something to worry about, just charge to full when you can, and that occasional partial charges won't make a noticeable difference. But that's just me speaking as a random person on the internet, I can't provide data to support my opinion. And I can't tell them to just trust the engineers since they know what they are doing, since the engineers (presumably) are the ones saying to charge to full each time to extend battery life. Even though I suspect what happened is the engineers wrote a paragraph or two about this, but whoever edited the owner's manual decided that what they wrote was too complicated for most people and so they condensed it to a single and easy to comprehend sentence, which unfortunately is completely lacking any quantification. Other than the quantifier "each time", which we have to read between the lines and interpret this as meaning "when convenient".