Wow it's been a while since any post I have made anywhere got such a response.
Thanks everyone. I think I will schedule a dealer visit for an adjustment, and when I remember I have been pushing the button to turn off the random brake actuation system.
BTW I have my sensitivity set to "long" because I appreciate the warnings. There have been one or two times when a car several seconds ahead of me got hard on their brakes hard at just the moment I was looking over my shoulder in hopes of changing lanes. I would have seen them in time anyway, but the warning got my attention right away and I was able to slow calmly and gently. I love that warning. I'm all about warnings, they are great. Information is power. I'm not very happy at all about the car taking my control away from me. This technology is not ready for prime time. I am quite convinced that I am still a lot better driver than my Clarity is.
I've also had the quick brake bump some of you described, when I was going around a right curve and there was oncoming traffic, there was 0 possibility of a collision, but I guess the sensor saw the car "in front" of me and jabbed the brakes. I also once had it bump the brakes briefly when I was rolling down a left turn only lane at maybe 15mph and there was stopped traffic on my right. There was a big box truck that I guess the sensor "saw". In neither case was I on a collision course and in neither case did the braking start until I was passing the "target". Both of those bothered me and made me concerned but the one I mentioned in the OP was sustained, engaged the anti-lock, and brought us nearly to a stop. I smashed the accelerator pedal down in hopes of getting going before someone behind me hit me. My son was pretty freaked out and actually cursed me, "what the hell are you doing Dad?!?!!" He got his learner permit and now he's the supreme critic of all my driving foibles.
I was hoping to avoid getting any car with all these safety nanny features. I don't believe they are mature yet, but the incentives on this Clarity made it such a great deal, and I wanted an ev or something close. I'm not fond of the lane keeping assist. At first it would just ping-pong down the lane, back and forth inside the lane like a drunk. I changed the settings and it got better, but I see no advantage to it. It doesn't allow you to let it drive, I find it reacts to turns much later than I would, starting the turn when we've drifted to the outside of the lane way more than I would allow, and that makes me nervous. Same with the adaptive cruise control, it reacts much later and much more abruptly than I would unless I were being totally negligent, and when I set it to say 65 and let off the pedal, it slows to 62 before speeding back up. Every morning at about the same place traffic slows from 65 down to 20 or 30. When I've had ACC on it waits and waits and doesn't slow, I loose my nerve and get on the brakes myself. I think the Clarity only "sees" about 150 feet which is totally insufficient for safe highway driving. So all of these features seem to make more work, increase driving my stress, do their thing worse than I do on my own, and one of them I suspect might be trying to kill me.
I love this car, except for the drunken safety nanny (DSN) system.
This increases my desire to get a dash cam. It's not just other drivers, but my car itself I may need to prove caused an accident.