I think you will find that most people on this forum really like the car. I have not driven a Tesla S or 3, so I cannot compare rides, but will characterize the ride of the Clarity as soft. The ride is smooth and quiet. The Clarity is not nearly as fast as either Tesla. Regenerative braking is not as strong as either Tesla. I have the Touring version and the seat is very comfortable to me. My car has been very reliable and the service I have received at my dealer has been good. I did have to have a wheel bearing replaced. And I did have a small curb incident that required a new bumper cover. I have owned the car for more than one year (18.000 miles). I would buy another if it was stolen or totaled. I would be happy to give you a test ride in my car but I doubt that is practical.
Thank you, I appreciate your input!