@electriceddy ,see if your local garage may have someone who can help once you point out the connector.
Okay,
third time's the charm

A garage had someone who is more adept,with a stronger thumb,and finger than I was able to DISCONNECT my VESS ! They couldn't begin to appreciate why I
was so happy as I drove off,in silence[maybe some tire noise]. Until the law makers make the VESS law...
I have done like another Kona owner,placed the two pieces connected,not all the way.When I get a chance,will wrap with electric tape to avoid contamination of the connection point.
Like others,no dash code popped up,the Kona drove like normal.