I cannot give suggestion on PHEV or BEV since it purely depends on your driving and your charging network. However, I can share my experience since I own both. If it were me, I wait and choose BEV, I will wait for more options. Wait for 1 more year before you buy BEVs when Mustagnag March E, VW ID4, Nissan Aryia, BMW Q4 Etron, BMW iNext, Benz EQS, Chevy Bolt SUV, Tesla CyberTruck. I know many of those cars won't fit your needs, but more options are better.
After owning Model Y and Clarity, I found out BEV fits much more for me because of my driving. I only filled up the Clarity's gas once since I got the Clarity 6 months ago due to my driving. This means I don't need PHEV for my driving. The problem I see if you drive electric-only with your daily drive with PHEV is your charging cycles of small battery vs charging cycles of a big battery of purely BEV. Since your PHEV battery is small, you need full charge cycles every day to cover your range, which will lead to batter degradation faster than BEV.
Not trying to promote Tesla, but after looking at all available BEVs, Audi E-Tron, Jaguar IPace, Nissan Leaf SL Plus, Chevy Bolt, I chose Tesla. 3 big reasons I chose Tesla even though I don't have $7500 tax credit
1) It's not about the price, it's about the cost to own the car after 3 years. Tesla's resale value is the best. All BEVs resale value will lose from 50% to 60% after 3 years, but you will lose around 25% value with your Tesla. So even though you pay more upfront, but you save money in the end.
2) Range and battery degradation. Model Y has 328 Miles range, the rest has sub 250 miles range. If I want to keep the car, my battery is still useful after 10 years
3) Charging Network. Since Model Y is our family car, it's important that we have a charging network during road trips. My friend has an IPace, he keeps complaining about Public charging network, Electric America, Chargpoint, EVgo ane ect..., they are complicated to use (each one has its own apps) and don't work many times. With Tesla, it's plug-and-play and their charging stations in California are available in every corners.
I hope this helps. IMO, if you live in California, you should get BEV instead since the charging stations are everywhere. With fast DC charging, you need only 15mins of charging to cover the 50miles to 75 miles range nowadays. As technology gets better, as charging stations are more available, the shift to BEV makes much more sense. Again, this is my own experience and my own opinions, I am not trying to promote BEV or Tesla. Do your own research to see what fits best for you. It depends on which state you live in and the charging stations that are available for you.