So I got my oil change notification today. I have used about 13 gallons of gas and am about to fill up my tank for the 2nd time since owning the car. I near the honda dealer I bought the car at at so I took it in over lunch and questioned them. I talked momentarily with the service departments manager who basically said the Maintenance Minder is always right, it takes into account all your drivings habits and heat and ware and knows when your oil needs to be changed. Honda can deny warranty coverage if you do not change your oil on time. Basically totally ignoring my concern. So as I left, I called Honda Corporate. Honda Corporate said that didn't really sound right and I should try another dealer and ask them to do the recall software updates as well. So that will get done Monday. If they don't do anything, I will call back corporate and see what my options are.