I'm still working on it. BMW designed Mini front suspension to ride just clear of the bumpstops. This gives a reasonable ride on most roads, but settles onto to bumpstops when cornering. Bumpstops increase the spring rate by about 50% where I've found data. Lowering springs from Eibach and HR are softer than stock and drop the car onto the bumpstops all the time, though the inside wheel will come off when cornering. I'm kinda dubious that they will increase cornering power under enthusiastic use. I'd like to drop mine down to F56ICE height and have 20-30% stiffer springs, which will hopefully be a good compromise for going round cones faster and being horrible to daily. The SE has the stiffest springs of any small Mini and they are also shorter than just about all stiffer springs BMW put on bigger cars. So, I'm having fun trying to find some suitable springs. Adjustable rear is possible with OTS aftermarket parts. The front however, is being difficult. Springs that are a little too short can be spaced, ones that are too long are more of a PITA...
The single best way to lower an SE is with smaller diameter wheels and tyres. That preserves the excellent stock suspension but subtracts height and roll moment. Unfortunately, it doesn't look
like cool or fast.