As you can see, my dealership quoted me $2,000 to black out the trim, plus SEVEN hours of labor for an additional $700. I laughed it off, but thankfully they sent me all of the part numbers and I just went and found them for cheaper online. There are some great YouTube tutorials and I will give it a go myself. Hopefully the part numbers will be helpful for others.
Thanks for the parts list: I have been slowly swapping parts bit by bit. Here is a link to cheaper options of the piano black tail light and headlight trim available at esctuning. Disclaimer: I already installed these on my SE and the quality and fit and finish were good. Taillight trim made by DEPO ( have to be purchased individually) https://www.ecstuning.com/Search/SiteSearch/f56_tail_light_trim/ Here is the headlight trim made by Bremmen (sold as a set) https://www.ecstuning.com/b-bremmen-parts/headlight-trim-rings-jet-black-set-f55-f56-f57/51137449209kt1kt/